<3 Tess <3 (foreveryours827) wrote in bitterandbroken,
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hey there

hey what's up.. i'm a newbie.. my name is Tess.. i'm From RI... and i'm 19..

9 days ago my Fiance broke up with me...

we dated for a year 1/2.. were engaged for 7 months... and i've known him since we were born.

he's in the air force and he's coming home for good next week... and he decided that he wants to be single when he's home and be 19... and he wants to hook up with other girls... which hurts..

cuz for the past 6 months while he's been away.. i've done everything for him.. i wrote him a letter everyday... i baked him cookies and brownies and sent them overnite to him... i used my money and my frequent flier miles to send his entire family down to see him for his basic training graduation... i put school and work and my career 2nd for him.. i really did everything for him... and it hurts that he can just push our relationship aside like it meant nothing...

like seriously... you don't tell someone you love them and want to marry them and plan the wedding and start picking out babies names and go pick out places to have your wedding and let her start designing her dress and then be liek well i wanna be 19 and live my life as being single...

naw.. if you have a heart.. .and if you really love someone.. you just can't do that.. at all... you really can't...

i'll write more later.. i just can't right now.... i don't have the strength to write anything more...

Peace out
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Hey, I wish I could give you advice but I can't. In this story he seems heartless, I don't know if you see it like that.

I'm really sorry, but someday you'll meet a guy (Or this one will come around) and you'll get happily married. You just have to give it time...
I hate it when people tell me that, but it's true.
he keeps calling me and telling me he misses me but then pretends like nothing's wrong...

i don't want to be with him agian.. it's over.. for good... i'm sick of him doing this to me...

but i'll be ok.. it's not gonna kill me.. it felt like that for a few days... but i'm alright

thank you for your support hunnie... i appreciate it really <33
guys are such jerks. i feel really bad for you. i sowwie you hurt
it's ok i have a new bf who is AMAZING!!!! like seriously.. i wasted my time with my x... he was a dick to me and never treated me right... but it's ok.. it took me a bit but i'm alright but thank you sweeti!

I wouldn't advise to get into a new relationship unless you understand what was wrong with the previous one! What will you do if the same thing happens here also when things get serious?? Yeah....you can soothe yourself not this time...or talk to your ex. Remember you know each other since you were born...is that just this easy to forget? Just one mistake doesn't means end of all.

My 2 cents: TALK!TALK!TALK!

Not about you...but about HIM!Don't tell him what hurts you...ask him to tell you what he is thinking. Being a guy, I can sense why he might want to be single for some time...its difficult to explain but am sure you will realize things are not the way you think! Just care about him the way you do...no shows about it..be there when he needs you...he will be back!